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 That would make a beautiful and relatable blog post! Since you’ve been a stay-at-home mom for 14 years and married since 2009, you have so much "real-life" experience to back up this message. It’s the kind of honest reflection that really resonates with readers on Blogger or WordPress.

Here is a draft that blends that theological truth with the grace your mother-in-law likely intended:

When Two "Sinners" Say I Do: The Beauty of a Messy Grace

I recently received a card that gave me pause. It mentioned how marriage is essentially two “sinners” blending their lives together. At first, it’s a bit of a jolt to see that word in a greeting card! But the more I sat with it, the more I realized it’s actually one of the most encouraging truths a couple can lean on.

The Reality of the "Union"

Theologically, we know that every marriage is a union of two fallible, imperfect people. We aren't two perfect puzzles pieces clicking together; we are two people who "fall short" and bring our own baggage, quirks, and mistakes to the table.

Why This Is Actually Good News

Acknowledging that we are both "sinners" doesn't sound romantic, but it’s actually the foundation of a lasting marriage for a few reasons:

 * It Destroys the Fairy Tale: When we stop expecting our spouse to be perfect, we stop being disappointed when they aren't. We recognize that every marriage is comprised of two people who are "in progress".

 * It Makes Room for Grace: In a "sinner-to-sinner" relationship, the goal isn't to never mess up; it's to learn how much sacrifice is involved in loving someone through the ups and downs.

 * It Points to a Greater Savior: While we are two fallible people, we aren't doing this alone. We have one great Savior who provides the power to transform our hearts and extend forgiveness when things get tough.

16 Years and Counting

After over a decade of marriage, I’ve seen that "making it work" isn't about being sinless—it's about being "grace-full." It’s about the daily decision to forgive, to laugh at our mistakes, and to remember that we are both works in progress.

Marriage is the stage where the story of redemption plays out every single day in our living rooms. It’s messy, it’s humbling, but through the lens of faith, it’s incredibly beautiful.

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